The only people I've heard using the "real fan" nonsense lately (before, it was related to Prequels) is the Disney fanboys. The same people who constantly say we should be happy that Disney allows us to have new SW, no matter the quality. Saying "real fans" like all SW (parroted by Lucasfilm employees too) is just BS. There's never been a point in the history of SW where fans loved everything. Ask people who were around during the OT, usually the fans who were like 12 or older, about the reception of ROTJ.
The blood thirsty need for conformity, and the demand for the same towards others is what honestly terrifies me.